7-23 The Wrong Thing to Say

People keep coming up to me and saying, “I don’t know what to say,” or “I didn’t say anything before because I didn’t want to say the wrong thing,” or “I don’t want to remind you of Jason,” or some variation on that theme.  Let me help clear this up. There are two and a…

7-18 Tug-of-War

Though we refer to the emotions around loss as “grief” that makes it sound like a single, monolithic thing.  It isn’t.  So far, it is a constant push-pull of conflicting emotions, and then an additional layer of frustration and anger and general shittiness in trying to navigate that push-pull. I am a person who requires…