12-20 Legal Bullshit: This is going to ruin your day

The title is for real.  This is very likely to ruin your day. Haynes has not taken the plea deal.  At this point, the trial is set for May 7th, Despite how simple that sounds, and how quickly that hearing went, there is a whole lot there to unpack.  So, here I go diving into…

12-13 Bravery

I don’t think getting out of bed and putting my pants on makes me brave or an inspiration.  If those are the things that make me “inspiring,” we need to talk about not using tragedy as your pornography.  That’s a different post. There are people we don’t have a choice about loving.  As children, we…

12-11 Some legal stuff

Nothing has changed. But let me take a moment to talk about upcoming possibilities and past actions.  Caveat: I’m stepping into the legal weeds.  Or at least legal ankle high grass.  So, sorry for any mistakes and if something isn’t clear ask questions and I’ll go find out the answers. One question I keep getting…

12-11 Photos and the Past Tense

“’Tis a fearful thing To love What death can touch.” – Yehuda HaLevi I’ve been struggling with tense in language.  When I talk about Jason, I refer to him as the love of my life.  He was.  He also still is.  His death hasn’t changed how I feel about him.  It hasn’t made me love…