It has been an eventful week. On Tuesday, the Violent Crimes Apprehension Team brought Haynes into custody. Two (nearly three) weeks ago, the Victim’s Advocate called me and told me that they would be actively searching for Haynes. I was also told not to make that public knowledge, on the off chance that she was…
Month: June 2018
6-21 Secondary losses: Language
Jason’s death has brought with it a lot of secondary losses. (Secondary loss is things like going into foreclosure when you no longer have 2 incomes, or the people who you no longer talk to because of the change in your circumstances.) Recently, the one I’ve been feeling is the loss of language. There are…
6-21 Helpless
The last time I felt this helpless in the face of major world events was when the tsunami struck Southeast Asia on Christmas in 2004. I watched footage of the wreckage of other peoples’ homes and thought about what it would be like to be without my home. I listened to interviews with people who…